An abyss of differences

ebony-ivory-bw1.jpegWhy is that that people can’t get by each others differences. Both young and old become rude and sometimes indignant at the simple fact that their skin is a different color from others, or most often that the other person’s skin isn’t the same as theirs- it sounds like the same, but believe me, those are two completely different mindsets. The constant racist comments, from both sides mind you, end up causing problems beyond the imagination. In all honestly, no, Caucasian people do not, for the most part, understand what it’s like to be in slavery- but at the same time the ones that you live with in today’s society didn’t partake in it either, and they can’t be held accountable for their ancestors actions, and even if they were then you would have to acknowledge the fact that somewhere in there a white person had to be an abolitionist to make it happen- some white dude had to sign some document enabling desegregation. And I am aware that itĀ isn’t the whole of our darker counterparts just as it isn’t the whole of whites who say things that are inappropriate. (I’m going to say African American or black- if you become offended because you’re not from Africa or you feel its derogatory, I apologize but I’ll use whatever it is that you prefer when the group as a whole can make up their mind. I mean nothing in disrespect, I’m just tired on stepping on someones toes no matter what I use. It’s simply an associative term in my opinion). Moving on… Also, why is it okay for our youth- the youth not more than a generation or two away from those who actually, first-hand, fought for equal rights- finds humor in these racist comments that cause so much strife. Or why do they have to label an activity as strictly White or Mexican or Black. It’s true, blacks, as a culture, are good at sports (specifically those of contact) and dancing and singing. But not all of them are. Just as Hispanics are diligent workers. And that’s not a bad thing. They were raised, culturally, to be hard workers and to be proud of what they do- if more whites and blacks were like that, things would be a lot better- but not all Mexicans are like that either. And all I hear from other cultures/races is that the white people take over everything- and to be honest, they tend to do that- but there isn’t a whole lot of others to compete. And I understand that there are still people out there in Americia that are racist and act accordingly in their business and service and whatnot, and shouldn’t be. But those people aren’t holding your future in their hands- they just closed of that particular door way; Do you really think that God is going to make your life miserable just because of this one guy- God is not racist and if you say otherwise, I advise that you simply don’t speak around me- because that’s just nonsense. Now, from what I understand about 80-90% of the black community will be in an uproar if they were to read my brief comment here if nothing more than I’m a white girl having a say about the African American community. But for those who may read- I am a part of a joyous Christian sorority where I am part of the small 1% of Caucasian girls- the remaining ladies are black. And I love each and every single one of them to death- it must be a miracle that we all act like sisters- who would have ever imagined…

4 Responses to “An abyss of differences”

  1. jonathon smith Says:

    Hey Sarah I thought I’d come over to your blog! Your experiences are great! Btw my family escaped Russia during the Bolshevik revolution because they were servants(slaves in essence) to the Czar’s. So I have slavery in my family background and it was only back to my grandfather and his father, also seeing as I am part Mexican…….I can say I know what its like to be minority and have slavery in background and yet to most that doesn’t count.

  2. a_sparrows_worth Says:

    This is true- even though you do have that history, other minorities will most likely not acknowledge that part of your heritage, or at least that it is an excuse or reasoning behind your actions/responses, but will expect that their’s is of upmost importance and highly justified- oddly enough, but I guess that’s human nature. I think that too many people try to take on the experiences of their relatives as their own, especially if the situation becomes conveniant to do so. My grandparents have never been financially well off and then my Hungarian heritage was well.. let’s just say they were in high hopes for their new life in America. Yet no one would allow me to say that I know what it’s like to be terrible poor- when my parents have done decently well since I’ve been around- I see other things as the same. Your life is your own- your grandparents were theirs- it’s not a confusing thing.. oh, and thanks for making the trip over to my blog! :)

  3. Tyler W Says:

    Hey Sarah,

    I just happened to come across this and the thing that always frustrates me is that the attitude of needing some kind of retribution for the past.

    For instance, scholarships based on race. They really bother me because it’s considered racist to have a scholarship for the “white” race. Yet, it’s ever-so-important to have one for every other race out there. The other thing is why does the black community need their own month, we can’t have a white month to show how good and honest white americans have helped this country. To me it just seems that the black community (I apologize for any stereotyping I might convey…but if you don’t like it, do something to change those.) is always trying to focus on their past as being in slavery. I’m truly sorry that happened, but it did…so can we please move on. I feel like often minorities are looking for some kind of handout and I don’t feel that they necessarily need one. I all for helping people in certain situations but not for their color.

    I also feel that people become offended by what they want to be offended by…now that may not be true for all situations but for most…I feel it pretty much covers things. With that being said I feel like minorities are quick to get up in arms any time they don’t like an outcome…and somehow any issue can become a race issue.

    I apologize if i’m come across kinda cynical, but I’m tired of everything being a race issue. Why is it that Obama can trandecend race and yet the news wants to show the percentage of how each race voted?? It just all really bothers me.

    Ok, i’m done.

  4. a_sparrows_worth Says:

    Sadly enough, I have to agree with you Tyler- not sad bc it’s you, but sad bc it’s how things are, or at least can be. There are alot of people who are considered to be in the minority in this nation who act out bc they don’t get what they want and they blame it on racial issues- the problem is that in order for democracy to succeed, it must be the majority rule. And that’s not majority in race, it’s majority in idea or concept. Race gets slurred in alot bc of cultural trends that correspond with race most of the time. It’s just the way it is. And no race did that to the other- the differences are there from years of life- and nothing is wrong with being different! As cynical as you may feel- sometimes it takes a cynic to shed some light on some things.

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